Should Christians Divorce?

was not really thinking about this subject, but it just came up out of the Spirit. Too many today are trying to justify their sin instead of repenting. It is time to repent Saints. ALL divorce is due to hardness of the heart. Just because someone has standing in their community does not mean they are right with Yeshua. If you were divorced as a heathen and then got saved, it is like it never happened because he throws our sins as far away from each other as the East is from the West. Death of the spouse releases the survivor to remarry. But "Christians" are NEVER allowed to divorce. Unless an unsaved spouse wants out of the marriage. Now abuse is a tricky one. Someone who is abusing their spouse is not Born-Again. So, if the abuser wants out, the spouse is free to remarry. But there is another option and that is to separate from the abusing spouse if he will not leave on his own. However, a separation means you are still married and cannot ever re-marry. Usually under this circumstance, when the abuser is denied sexual favors, he will make the divorce happen so he can go find a new partner and the spouse will be free then to re-marry. Those who claim Christ as savior, who have divorced their spouse, and that spouse is also saved, the divorce is not legit. And to remarry is sin. It is a "Legal" divorce, but YHVH said, "whatever YHVH has joined together, let not man put asunder." Do you think he changed his mind just because you could not put to death your own desires and serve your spouse faithfully, as you promised by a vow to do, in front of Yeshua, and man in the church at your wedding?? Those vows are sacred and ever binding, even if you "Grow" or change your mind later. The ONLY exception is if the spouse has committed adultery. But even then, we should (Not mandatory) practice compassion and forgiveness unless it becomes chronic. We MUST follow what the scriptures say and everything decent and in order. The goal is to please our savior, not ourselves.